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Pamela, My heart goes out to you in your loss. Tao sounds like she was a wonderful companion. I believe our furred ones have spirit, as we do, and continue to be close to us in our grieving, until day by day our loving memories of them take the place of the ache we feel at their passage. I am sure Tao remains close, visiting in your dreams and watching over you both with love.

We are facing a similar situation - our great big white fluffy Pyr, Zander, has been diagnosed with bone cancer. Its a matter of months for us. We know that the day will come when we are asked, as you two were, to be soul stewards to guide and release a family member from this plane.

Given a choice, I am sure you would choose to keep every happy, purr filled, playful day you had with her.

hugs,
Leslie

I know how this feels, Pam. I am there, with my arm around your shoulder, speaking words of comfort.

Love,
Shelley

Pamela, Tao knew that you loved her - when she was ill and from the day that you rescued her. Still hurting for you, Mother

No worries, I read it the way you intended. It warms my heart to know others appreciate our impish little spirit. I always considered her one of my best teachers of enjoying the present moment.

Now I am concerned my comment came out wrong. I did not enjoy hearing of Tao's illness, discomfort, and passing. My heart goes out to her, you, and your husband. And I meant to say prayer, not poem. Oops!

Hi, Pamela. I am thinking of you. I enjoyed reading about Tao and the poem is beautiful. I want to get that book. I know this is a hard and sad time. And that is what it is! I am here if you need a shoulder to cry on.

Thanks, Jennifer. I just added a note at the bottom of my post with a link to my favorite photo of her. I'm so glad I wrote a post about the night she caught a dragonfly. It feels good to remember how she made us smile.

Pamela, seeing Tao's picture and reading the prayer you posted, I'm feeling so sad for you today. Not too long ago, I faced this wrenching situation, too.

How do we bear it, saying goodbye to these beloved ones? I still don't know.

Hugs to you,
Jennifer

Thanks, Marilyn.
After watching her suffer and only getting worse all weekend, we basically knew it was the right decision when the vet gave us no hope. But it still hurts when I think of her burying her face in my arms for comfort in those last moments.
If only we never had to make those decisions.

Hi Pam,

I'm sorry for your loss. That's a hard decision to make, but you don't want to see your pet suffer.